“I’m Starting With The Man In The Mirror”
So sang Michael Jackson in 1988 in his fourth single from the ‘Bad’ album.
He continued with:
I’m Gonna Make A Change,
For Once In My Life
It’s Gonna Feel Real Good,
Gonna Make A Difference
Gonna Make It Right . . .
With the Christmas festivities nearing an end and the New Year in sight many of us will be ‘feeling it’ somewhat.
The tighter trousers.
The dip in energy.
Not exactly feeling “real good”.
And many of us will be looking to ‘make a change’ very shortly.
We’re starting to realise that we’ve “Been A Victim Of A Selfish Kind Of Love”.
One where we’ve sacrificed the greater good of long term health and happiness for the short term buzz of food and alcohol.
Jacko knew the score when he sang:
I’m Starting With The Man In
The Mirror
I’m Asking Him To Change
His Ways
And No Message Could Have
Been Any Clearer
If You Wanna Make The World
A Better Place
Take A Look At Yourself, And
Then Make A Change
To get what you want, long term, it’s more than a case of just ‘doing’ certain things.
You know – “I’m going to workout three times a week and eat healthily in the New Year’.
Real, lasting change comes from changing that man (or, obviously, woman) in the mirror.
Reevaluating thought processes, habits, relationship with food, etc.
Fundamentally changing the way you think.
If just ‘trying harder’ hasn’t worked (permanently) before, then there’s no reason to think it will this time.
It’s not easy, sure.
Involves a bit of soul searching.
A lot of asking yourself awkward questions.
And confronting things you might not like to confront.
But it’s the only way to lasting success.
And, when you’ve made those changes, it becomes exponentially easier.
If you (or a friend) want to find out more about how we help people change that ‘man in the mirror’ then we have the final orientation meeting for a our ‘FREE 20lbs weight loss challenge’ tomorrow (Tuesday 30th) at 8.30pm – you can find out more about that at myrise.co.uk/briefing-meeting.
It’s the last chance as it starts next Monday 🙂
But, either way, please take this opportunities to take that look in the mirror.
And ask him / her to change his / her ways.
Much love,
Jon ‘Bad’ Hall and Matt ‘Thriller’ Nicholson