Have you ever asked yourself that question?
“What’s wrong with me?”
I feel pretty confident that most, if not all, of us will have at times.
It’s a hard question to answer though.
I don’t know if asking it leads us to an answer that actually helps us.
Maybe a better question we could ask is;
“What am I good at?”
Probably a question that we might struggle with more initially.
We might tell ourselves “nothing” or “not much”.
Writing off the countless things that we do successfully daily and weekly.
Considering them to be just “expected behaviour”.
But they will be there.
Things that we successfully do.
And we can learn from them.
Look up why those things happen and try and replicate that with the things that we’re not doing so much of.
What is the “secret” to the things that we do do?
How can we apply that elsewhere?
Is it how we choose to frame it in our head?
Is it the way we schedule and plan for it?
Is it tied in to what’s important to us, our values and the type of person we see ourselves being can becoming?
Are other people involved in making it happen?
Have we made it as easy as possible to do (and / or hard not to).
Whatever the case, how can we replicate what happens with the things that are good at with the things we’re less so?
Asking ourselves “What am I good at?” will get us much further than “What’s wrong with me?”
Much love,
Jon ‘Wrong way’ Hall
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